Cold

Somehow, and I always rack my brain trying to figure out how, our home is host to a summer cold. Those who got it first are slowly improving but the head cold, for some, has dropped to a chest cold. This is what we must avoid for Anna, if at all possible.  Her runny nose began the other night in her sleep as I heard her toss and turn, breathe heavily through her mouth, and snort a time or two. I lay there listening to her, and worried. When she woke up she told me that her throat hurt... well, actually she said, "There is something in my throat." Maybe it was goop.  In any case, we put her on a decongestant right away but it doesn't seem to be working too well.  I just wrote the CF nurse to ask if she had a suggestion for a different type of decongestant and I got back an automatic-reply email that she was out of town until next week. Frustrating. Please keep Anna in your prayers as we battle this cold and try to keep her healthy. 

On a different note, Anna has recently taken charge of her own therapy treatments.  She described her respiratory therapy to me one day like this: "First you put on the medicine. The smoke comes out. You cough and feel better. That's the therapy."  She also insists on snapping the buckles on the vest by herself and will often want to attach the hoses to the sides as well. It is our goal as parents to teach her to take care of her CF needs as early and as independently as possible- so that someday she will have no troubles, or even a second thought, about following the daily care guidelines for CF. If we can teach CF care as a normal routine for her, then her chances for a longer and healthier life will increase....

My goal, my prayer, is that Anna outlive me- and then some.

Looking Good!

Anna had her quarterly check up at the CF clinic yesterday. She was a model patient, doing all the
nurse, pulminologist, social worker, psychologist, nutritionist, and respiratory therapist asked her to do. I simply explained what they were going to do and she aided them with perfect cooperation- not bad for a two year old!

The overall response by all the members of the CF team is that "she looks good." I was particularly heartened by the doctor's statement after he listened to her lungs, "Perfect."  She has been healthy now for over six months and I am so grateful. I will continue to pray, bless with holy water, anoint with holy oil, petition St. Jude and beg God's continued mercy for her health and happiness.

And she is a happy child. She brings such joy to our home. There is no lack for smiles when she is around....

Victory!

Two years ago when Anna was hospitalized as an infant with pneumonia, she was put on a daily inhaled medicine that thins the mucus in the lungs so that it can be more easily coughed up. Scared from our experience and wanting only what was best for her, we administered this expensive medicine. After a while I started to wonder if she needed it. Once she was out of the hospital a few months, I never heard her cough at all after her therapy. She didn't seem to have the chronic cough of CF- at least not yet. Why were we giving her a mucus thinner to help her cough if she wasn't coughing?

After researching this medicine a bit I found out that it had never gone through a long-term study. The longest it had been studied in patients that were using it was a year. And- it had never been studied on persons under the age of five. I asked the doctor if we could take her off this medicine. The answer was no- because we were in the middle of cough and cold season and therefore it was not a good time to take her off this medicine, which he felt was a mild medicine and harmless anyway.

I asked again another time if we couldn't take her off this medicine- no was the answer again.

Finally, last week she had another appointment and I was determined that I would again broach the subject of the not-needed medicine. As her appointment approached, I began to have more than my usual anxiety as I played out in my head the conversation I would have about this medicine with her doctor. How would I defend my position? I talked to Steve about it and he pointed out that the doctors and staff are hired by us for their expertise, but we are not bound in any way to follow all of their recommendations. He said that we could just take her off the medicine ourselves, at least for a trial time period, and see how she faired.  I had never thought about doing that. Once I accepted that as a possibility, I felt more in control, but I still wanted the doctor's approval.

So to give a short ending to a long story, I took a deep breath and told the doctor I wanted to take her off the medicine. He looked at me, asked if she were having any respitory issues, and then agreed to take her off the medicine until it may be needed in the future. My thoughts exactly. Just like that.

Victory! A small one, but a victory none the less.

There and Back Again

We have traveled by plane with our five children, frolicked for a week in a sunny place, and returned- in good health. It is like a miracle...

About an hour before we left the house to begin our vacation, I pulled out a few surgical masks that the CF nurse had given me at least a year ago anticipating the day when Anna would wear one to her visits to the CF clinic or in public places.  I had no hope whatsoever that Anna would wear one on the plane. Why would a two-year old want to wear a mask?  I put a mask on myself and said something like, "This is a mask that you wear when you are on a plane." She was so excited that she nearly ripped mine off of me. I couldn't get her mask on fast enough for her. Then her three older brothers wanted to wear them too. I was amazed. I had to convince her that she didn't need to wear the mask until we got to the airport! She put the mask on just inside the airport door and didn't take if off until after we landed five hours later. She didn't even want to slide it down to take a drink of water.  She was beautifully behaved on the plane and never complained about her ears hurting, about which I was quite concerned.  She also wore the mask on the trip home, at a crowded museum, and allowed me to disinfect her hands the million times that I wanted to throughout the vacation.

We did have her medical bag searched by hand at the airport. I expected as much. We did not have to use the letter of explanation given to me by the CF doctor though. And the airport staff was helpful in letting us board early so we could stow the large, heavy bag in the overhead compartment.

Even though we were in a strange place, she readily sat for her daily therapy- thank goodness for videos from the library.

We did a lot of walking and even hiking and Anna was right there keeping the pace- even trying to climb up rocks! At this point in her young life anyway, there was no slowing her down. She was amazing.

I am so grateful that we were able to take this trip. So many times I doubted it would occur, and I was afraid to get my hopes up. I am humbled that we were blessed with good health before, during, and even upon our return.  God is good.

It's a go!

I can finally let myself believe that we will be going on that vacation! I have prayed and prayed for our health- and then in the last week or so I just gave it to God.

We are leaving tomorrow. Since God has blessed us with the health we needed to go, may he continue to do so as we travel...

Still haven't told the kids. We thought we would let them get a good nights sleep. I, on the other hand, will probably not sleep so good!

January

When last I wrote we were waiting for the results of the throat culture. I had to track down the results as for some reason they did not contact me. The test showed that she has small amounts of the normal bacteria that has shown up in these cultures before. My understanding is that we are all walking around with some amount of "natural flora", we just have to keep extra tabs on Anna's so that they don't increase and that they remain susceptible to antibiotics should the need arise.

In a season of colds and flu we tend to hibernate. We have been blessed to be mostly healthy all through these last months. Any cough Anna had was mild and she kicked on her own without any antibiotics. I pray fervently that we will continue on this track of health, especially because we have planned a family vacation. A "real" vacation that will require us to be gone for a week, fly on a plane, and be healthy.  The underlying fear- that Anna will be sick and we will be unable to go. Of course, my overwhelming concern would be for Anna's health, but having to cancel a vacation when we haven't been on one in over a decade, would be very disappointing.  Therefore, we haven't told the kids that we have a vacation on the horizon.  If we had to cancel, I am afraid that they would blame Anna...

So, I get to keep the secret to myself. Which isn't easy and I think the oldest is on to me. I also get to lay awake at night and wonder how I am going to get all of Anna's medications and medical equipment for her daily therapy through the airport. I hope that the worry is worth it and that we do get on that plane in a few weeks.

Still in Good Health

We have had a cold in the house for almost two weeks. Everyday I wonder if it will be Anna's turn and I also wonder how I will respond if she starts to show symptoms. It seems like so long since she has been ill. I try to tell myself that I will treat the event casually and try not to get worked up over it- after all, it's "just a cold." But I know that I will probably, realistically, be worried, distracted, and sit at the foot of her bed and listen to her breathe at night.

I had an alarming conversation with a friend on the phone today as she told me that the flu has already hit our area. She said there were signs all over the pediatrician's office alerting people and encouraging people to get the flu shot.  We have not gotten our shots yet- because I am reluctant to do so... and Anna has never had one. I am concerned about her reaction to the flu shot, though I know the shot is highly recommended by her CF doctor.  We have gotten the shot for the other kids the past two years, but not for her, as she was too young. I was dragging my feet on this, as the pediatrician told me back in October that the season didn't start until the end of December/ beginning of January. After the phone conversation today, I want to call right away to get an appointment- for I truly think that the flu would put Anna in a hospital.

She has a CF appointment this coming Tuesday. I pray that all goes well.